own your happiness

i have tried many and many times, mistake after mistake to blame others for why i was making those mistakes, i tried to say "well it was because my mom wasn't in my life, my dad was not there at all or i didn't feel included" whatever excuse i tried to come up with at the time, truth is if you are unhappy IT IS YOUR FAULT! there i said it and i do not care how you feel about it either because guess what it is the truth. blaming others allows us to not take responsability for our own lives, we allow others to drive the car while we sit in the passenger seat. TAKE A LOOK IN THE MIRROR! IT IS YOU! ALL YOU! you have to understand, the mind will have you believing anything if you let it, you come up with these things to make yourself feel better, then you reassure yourself that it is indeed the truth so that you can be comfortable in the lie you have just made. the sooner you own up to it, the sooner the healing can begin. i will be thankful to the creator that although i pointed a finger at someone i was able to see the three that were pointing back at me, and i started to see that although i could choose the childhood that i had, i could for sure choose the future and the present that i will/have. those circumstances i had a say so in, so the mistakes i made they were of my own doing.so stand in front of the mirror and take a hard look if you see something you do not like, and it does not have to be on the surface, then start taking chanrge because let me tell you no other feeling surpasses absolute happiness with one self...

i'll see you after another lesson...with love :)
chrissy